Tuesday, November 15, 2016
Someone mentioned Bev's Cafe in Red Wing to me today, and I thought of this photo shoot Buddha did. I remember the smell of the bacon. The fact that Barbara O'Brien got Buddha to sit still with good bacon on the plate in front of him - no rubber food here - still amazes me. (And a cup of good coffee, too! He loves coffee.) I'd like to have these two pics framed and hanging on a wall in my house for posterity.
Friday, November 11, 2016
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Friday, September 23, 2016
Mouth breathing. All of the time. I don't understand why because it's cool and rainy outside, cool inside. I shouldn't be mouth breathing. But I am.
I tweeted something tonight I thought was funny. I was responding to a hashtag meme. No one has liked it, much less retweeted. I guess it wasn't funny.
I worry constantly about going bald. My mother didn't go bald. I know of no woman in my family who went bald. On the contrary, we have great hair. I have great hair. That's how it's supposed to be. But there's all this hair on my hairbrush. And so much hair on the bathroom floor. I thought it was Buddha's, and some of it is. But a lot isn't Buddha's.
I tried to tell Karen about my fears of going bald. She's very dismissive of anything I say. Everyone's hair thins in old age, she says. I'm 51 - does it start now, I ask? Well, get a wig, she says instead of answering. So you're saying I need a wig? I ask. She's very dismissive.
If I go bald, I have nothing left that is attractive about me. I will have nothing of what I used to be.
Karen's never been afraid of anything. I have to be careful of what I say, or I will be shouted at. It's all in my head, evidently. Feelings aren't real. Worries aren't real. I should just tell myself my feelings are nothing but a chemical imbalance. Other people have it much worse. I should think of people who have family members who are mean to them: I'm lucky not to have any family because they could be like that. Think of other people who are worse off and you'll feel better.
It doesn't work. I just can't think like her. I guess I'm an inferior model of person. The himan race needs more Karens and fewer of me.
I brought home my work laptop and all these folders. I was hoping to have time to work on the novel outline - the novel itself is languishing. 2 months now since I've written a chapter. But I've had such a hard time concentrating at work lately that I'm way behind on this project they've stuck me with. It's really a job for an analyst, not a writer/editor. I don't understand it and I don't know how to do it, but I don't dare ask for help. Not there. Not me. I just try to keep my head down.
I'm thinking of experimenting with some of the meds I've been keeping in a box in the closet as the years go by. I have some Dubonnet. lf I took a Vicodin and a glasss of Dubonnet maybe I could sleep through the night? I just wish I could get a few nights of sleep. Maybe I could think more clearly about things.
I've been trying to play solitaire at the dining room table and listen to some music. But I just can't relax, although Imm very tired.